Who’s that sexy and vibrant person?<\/em> Aries will grab your attention while (seemingly) doing nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWhen an Aries is interested in you, they can also charge after you like their symbolic Ram, making their intentions crystal clear. An Aries once walked up to Ophi on the beach and, without even introducing himself, asked, \u201cWant to go out tonight?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Of course, he was charming enough to plop down in the sand and engage her in a three-hour conversation about life, relationships, and the senselessness of monogamy. And he was so earnest about that<\/em>, she went out with him anyhow. That night, he brought her an exquisite box of Max Brenner chocolates\u2014 \u201cchocolates by the bald man\u201d\u2014because he, too, was bald.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWhen Aries dates or seduces you, they always leave you with something to remember them by. And indeed, you will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Signs an Aries likes you<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
In the unlikely event that Aries doesn’t make their attraction obvious, here are some signs of romantic interest if you’re dating an Aries:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n- Aries will approach you and start a conversation, peppering you with direct questions and holding you rapt in their piercing gaze<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Aries will ask you all about yourself, or tell you all about their life\u2014the stories will be hilarious and fascinating!<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They walk right up to you and tell you that they find you attractive and why<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They directly ask you out\u2014why wait?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They hit on you shamelessly (if they\u2019re feeling super-confident)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They \u201chover\u201d and study you to see if you\u2019re available, asking leading questions<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They observe you from a distance making you feel slightly uneasy and desirable at once<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They begin protecting you, sticking up for you and helping you advocate for yourself<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They say something sweet, sincere and flattering<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They turn up the charm around you, becoming the brightest light in the room<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They play peacock\u2014showing off their \u201cfeathers\u201d and making sure that you are impressed by their intellect, taste, whatever!<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They get loud, funny and cocky, playing pranks and cracking borderline inappropriate jokes<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They bait the trap\u2014talk about sex, other lovers, their fantasies\u2014knowing you\u2019ll get all hot and bothered<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- They call you daily, even if the conversation is short and sweet. Hey, this sign isn’t known for their long attention spans, but it\u2019s the thought that counts when you’re dating an Aries.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Flirting with an Aries<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Want to make an Aries fall in love with you? The way to the Aries heart is through the mind. Even if your Ram seems completely distracted, this sharp zodiac sign notices everything. Chances are, by the time you approach Aries, they\u2019ve already been scoping you out for a while. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aries can be gruff and rough around the edges. Aries rules the face, and a key Aries trait is to have a memorable expression on theirs. Aries are often unaware that they’re scowling or look a little intimidating, even fierce. Most likely they’re lost in their thoughts. But their guards are also up to a degree. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Want to melt off the tough-guy mask and get Aries all hot and bothered? Here’s what to do when you’re dating an Aries:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Engage in passionate conversation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Your relationship with an Aries will be largely centered around bonding through great talks. Open up and share from the heart. Don\u2019t interrupt them when they start telling a story or sharing an opinion. They want to know that you\u2019re fascinated by their ideas and observations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tell them you think they\u2019re hot<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The Aries personality is direct and authentic. This zodiac sign loves a bold come-on, especially when you deliver it in their own straightforward style. The Aries peacock wants to be admired. You might as well strut up and admire their feathers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Say something clever and edgy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Here’s a secret about the Aries personality: They think they\u2019re smarter than everyone else. Are you clever enough to hang with this sign? Make Aries laugh and show them that you\u2019ve got sharp wit. Reveal your instincts and opinions. If you start to establish an \u201cus-against-the-world\u201d camaraderie, you could soon be their favorite confidante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do your own version of a mating call<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Show off your star quality, laugh loudly, be the sexiest one on the dance floor. Like an animal in heat, they\u2019ll home in on your seductive signals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Remind them of themselves<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
There\u2019s a teensy bit of a narcissist in every Aries. Did you take the words right out of their mouth? Do something exactly the way they would? It must be love! Our friend Lisa met her Aries husband Rob on the first day of grad school. The students went around and introduced themselves, saying why they enrolled in the Masters program. \u201cRob told me that I said exactly what he was going to say, almost word for word,\u201d Lisa says. They were in love from that moment on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dating an Aries: Play time!<\/h2>\n\n\n\nAries are steel magnolias 99% of the time<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
When it comes to love, however, they prefer to surrender control to a dashing and magnanimous partner. They want to be wowed and wooed simultaneously\u2014and if you pick up the tab, they won\u2019t complain. Warning! Given how particular their tastes can be, Aries can be difficult to please. Fortunately, they have no trouble vocalizing what they do and don\u2019t like, and will provide a date with quality information. Hopefully they\u2019ll speak up before you\u2019ve dropped hundreds on orchestra level tickets to a show they can\u2019t stand or hired a private chef to cook dishes that they abhor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Activity dates are fun for the daredevil Rams<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
They\u2019ll gladly show off their star-powered skills on the karaoke mic or flaunt their rhythmic mojo on the dance floor. They love to be entertained with movies, concerts and plays. Bonus points to the date who can get Aries into the VIP section of the club or theater. Being around an elite and intellectual crowd rocks their world, so attending an exclusive party as a couple can get Aries totally charged up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As a relationship progresses, they relax significantly and prefer to share adventure dates with a mate, checking off all the items on their Bucket List one by one. Skydiving, snorkeling, snowboarding, jumping off a cliff on matching hang gliders\u2014they\u2019re total thrill-seekers at heart who consider an adrenaline rush to be the sexiest aphrodisiac. They\u2019re up for an emotional adventure too, frolicking on nude beaches and attending a tantric breath work retreat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n