{"id":43898,"date":"2022-03-28T15:49:18","date_gmt":"2022-03-28T19:49:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astrostyle.com\/?post_type=as_learn_article&#038;p=43898"},"modified":"2024-03-06T11:15:50","modified_gmt":"2024-03-06T16:15:50","slug":"dating-a-cancer","status":"publish","type":"as_learn_article","link":"https:\/\/astrostyle.com\/astrology\/dating-a-cancer\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating a Cancer"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">So you&#8217;re dating a Cancer or want to be. Here&#8217;s our guide to navigating first moves, knowing if it&#8217;s reciprocal, flirting and memorable date ideas. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating a <a href=\"https:\/\/astrostyle.com\/horoscopes\/daily\/cancer\/\">Cancer<\/a> is as if the eyes are the windows to the soul. Cancer leaves the curtains open when they\u2019re feeling the love. Their soft, tender gaze will melt your heart. It\u2019s almost the way a mother looks at a newborn\u2014radiating wonder and hope. Cue the violins! Toss the rose petals! Release the cherubs and their magical harps!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">First Moves: How Cancer woos you<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This <a href=\"https:\/\/astrostyle.com\/astrology\/elements-fire-earth-air-water-signs\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"as_learn_article\" data-id=\"3175\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">water sign\u2019s<\/a> heart is easily stirred. Still, there\u2019s something in the way they look at you that will make their interest obvious. Courtship with a Cancer can be fun and romantic. At the very least, you\u2019ll enjoy a few fun, carefully planned dates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Signs a Cancer likes you<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Signs Cancer is checking you out as a prospective partner<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>They get physical, touching your bare skin while they talk<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They put an arm around you, hug you, or pull you close, seducing you with their signature, hand-blended fragrance made to work with their unique body chemistry<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They hang on every word you say and get really involved in the conversation, prompting you to open up further with \u201cTell me more about that?\u201d or \u201cHow did that make you feel?\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They call you to \u201csee how you\u2019re doing\u201d\u2014a gentle, well-being checkup<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They get all chivalrous\u2014opening doors, kissing your hand, walking you home<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They offer their help with an issue or household project and show up with state-of-the-art tools or kitchen equipment<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They listen to you vent about your loser ex (they\u2019re secretly competitive and love to one-up your past flames)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They ask your friends about you behind your back (their \u201crejection protection\u201d strategy)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They ask deliberate questions designed to help them figure you out\u2014and yes, they want to know about your childhood<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They invite you to join them for a cultural event or a well-planned date to a concert or independent film that you\u2019ll be able to discuss at length over drinks afterwards<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They offer to bring a meal over to your home or office<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Flirting with a Cancer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Flirting with a Cancer isn\u2019t hard once you break past their initial reserve. Once they know it\u2019s safe to drop their guard, they may shock you with their forwardness when you&#8217;re dating a Cancer. Still waters <em>do <\/em>run deep\u2014and observant Cancers know just what to say to catch you off guard. Oh, you didn\u2019t realize they were watching you too?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s how to get a Cancer to stop playing it cool.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ask for their advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Personal conversations (about you, not them) are the ultimate icebreakers for dating a Cancer. Any opportunity for them to show their sensitivity helps them avoid the small talk they hate. Plus, you\u2019re bound to get some hot tips from one of the most observant signs in the zodiac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m watching every little thing,\u201d says our Cancer friend. \u201cI\u2019ll notice your haircut is new, you did something with your eyebrows, your shoes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Talk about books, art and culture<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Cancers are the ultimate culture vultures who have no problem showing up to a concert or film opening alone because they love an artist\u2019s work <em>that <\/em>much. Talk about your favorite band or a controversial <em>New Yorker<\/em> article and they\u2019ll be eating out of your palm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tease them mercilessly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it takes a little \u201cneg\u201d to get Cancer out of their shell, so don\u2019t be afraid to poke them until they emerge. They might snap back at you with a sassy retort\u2014and yeah (ouch!) it might hurt a little. But if Cancer is into you, they\u2019ll probably just laugh, swat you and boom\u2014they\u2019re charmed! Pro tip: Don\u2019t tease them about any sensitive subjects unless you want the pinchers to come out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Complain about your love interest or a recent ex<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Competitive Cancer loves to play the sensitive hero, one-upping all the other contenders. After all, understanding the psyche is their secret weapon. Go ahead, tell them what a jerk your ex was. It just primes the pump for their favorite opening line: \u201cIf <em>we <\/em>were together\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be yourself\u2014boldly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Like a moth, Cancers gravitate to the brightest light in the room. If you\u2019re the pulse of the party or the center of an exciting conversation, they may end up in your orbit. Lean forward when you\u2019re talking so they can get a whiff of your fragrance, run a hand through your hair, play to their camera. The more you dazzle them, the better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take it back to the playground<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is <a href=\"https:\/\/astrostyle.com\/cancer-traits\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"34626\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the zodiac\u2019s sign most likely to marry their childhood sweetheart<\/a>, so flirt like the most confident kid on the playground. They love it when you giggle or blush like a schoolgirl\u2014especially over them\u2014or you offer to carry their bag and walk them to \u201cclass.\u201d Old-fashioned role playing makes them swoon! Just never treat Cancer like they\u2019re <em>actually <\/em>helpless or dependent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dating a Cancer: Make it meaningful!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cancers are sentimental romantics with a secret wild streak, so their dates must be classy but also exciting. It\u2019s a tall order, but that\u2019s fine! They don\u2019t mind waiting around for a gallant suitor to dash in and wow them with their excellent taste and a generous spirit. As the zodiac\u2019s culture hounds, they have their fingers on the pulse of the art world. Gallery exhibitions, live concerts, author lectures, the opera and ballet\u2014bonding over creativity and art can rev Cancers\u2019 romantic engines. It will also help they break the ice on first dates if you&#8217;re dating a Cancer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Caution: Avoid getting too personal, too quickly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Crabs are highly private and would rather not reveal anything too personal early on. They can talk for hours, however, about the subversive nature of an indie rock musician\u2019s lyrics or the untimely passing of a legendary rapper. Order tickets for events in advance. This gives Cancer something to look forward to and provides an added measure of security that the date is actually going to happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Make it yummy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>As the zodiac\u2019s foodie, Cancers\u2019 favorite dates often involve sampling the fare at raved about restaurants. You\u2019ll happily order the six-course tasting menu and wine by the bottle. A date who enjoys the decadent sensuality of sharing a meal will find Cancer melting to their will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Later in the courtship dance, cooking together can be a total aphrodisiac. They&#8217;re likely a whiz in the kitchen. If not, they\u2019ll happily play sous chef, chopping and grinding between Cabernet-soaked kisses. If the vibe is cozy enough, they might just settle in for the weekend. They can\u2019t wait to get to the nesting phase of the relationship. A night of cuddling on the couch can be sheer bliss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What to do on a date with a Cancer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Go antiquing; Cancers love to treasure hunt for items with historical value<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Rent scooters and go for an adventure ride<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Party hop!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sample cuisine at a fusion or experimental restaurant<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Attend a charity event together<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Stay in for a romantic evening; spending cozy one-on-one time appeals to Cancer homebodies, too<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Explore the arts: check out a must-see exhibit or theater production<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Score tickets to hear the latest up-and-coming band<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you&#8217;re dating a Cancer or want to be. 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