air sign’s<\/a> flirting style is both playful and premeditated. They tease with carefully chosen words, provocative comments and a minefield of mind games. If you’re dating a Gemini, you’ll find that they like to test your limits, and they bore easily. To amuse themselves, they\u2019ll smugly rile you up or piss you off intentionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\nSpark an intellectual or political debate<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Isn\u2019t it hot? All that tension from sparring, the adrenaline of fighting over facts and figures\u2026you can really work up a sexual appetite. One Gemini recalls a memorable first date where they \u201cargued psychology for three hours.\u201d Go ahead, Mary Mary Quite Contrary, show them how your debate-team garden grows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Let your fingers do the talking<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Verbal stimulation works wonders for Gemini, who can get insanely turned on by the written word. DM banter can heat up quickly with them. Or get them on a video chat and plan to stay up half the night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Invite them for a spontaneous adventure<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Out of the blue, casually call Gemini and invite them to a book signing, a bar with live music, a strip club, whatever night-on-the-town you dream up. They love surprises, and they\u2019re not one of those old-fashioned types who balks at being asked out without advance notice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Transport their imagination to another reality<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
To Gemini, it\u2019s a thin line between fantasy and everyday life. They like to keep at least a gentle blur between the two. Take Dan, a Gemini computer programmer, who had his best \u201ctrue love\u201d moment with a woman he never officially met! \u201cIt happened in the airport in Rome,\u201d Dan recalls. \u201cThere was a woman sitting behind a counter, about 20 feet away. We couldn’t take our eyes off each other. It lasted about two minutes. We never spoke. She got called away, and I got on a train.\u201d Talk about a quickie!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Get ready for the interview!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
With their curious natures, dating a Gemini means they’re going to ask you a lot of questions. They love it even more when you question them, as long as you keep it in \u201csafe\u201d terrain that\u2019s not too personal, too soon. Geminis have opinions to share! Ask them to weigh in on a current event or cultural work and you may be the one saying, \u201cI\u2019d love to keep talking but I need to get back to work now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While they may charm you into spilling your secrets, if you\u2019re too forthcoming, Gemini will grow bored. So even if they peer right into your soul, or read you like one of their many books, the more you intrigue them, the more excited they\u2019ll get.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dating a Gemini: It takes two<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Gemini\u2019s idea of a great opening line sounds like this, \u201cI\u2019ve got two tickets to a show this Friday, wanna go?\u201d Their answer, naturally, is yes, since they always have their cultural satellites tuned to the latest and greatest thing. Rocking out at a live show, sampling the fare at a raved about restaurant, hitting the opening of a movie or store, watching an avant-garde performance art installation\u2014anything that\u2019s new, edgy, and invite-only is their idea of a perfect date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After all, these events give Gemini an opening for great conversation, and verbal repartee is the ultimate aphrodisiac for this sign. You\u2019ve likely been sending each other flirty texts for days leading up to the date. Witty, sexy, and intellectual banter is essential to keep Gemini interested. They’re pretty much up for anything provided their companion can match their gift of gab.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Playful spontaneity ranks high with the zodiac\u2019s Twin<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
They\u2019ll happily hop in the car and take a road trip to an unexplored town. Wandering through flea markets, riding the Ferris wheel at a random state fair, or having a lunch date at a great people-watching spot is perfectly fine by them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As the zodiac\u2019s Twin they love active dates that require clear cut partnership skills. Take a partner-dance workshop, play a game of mixed doubles tennis, spot each other at the rock climbing wall, duet on the karaoke mics. As your relationship progresses, they might even suggest coordinating outfits, adhering to a theme or general style that makes it obvious that you are two halves of a whole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Activity ideas for dating a Gemini<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n- Pick up two tickets to a concert or a dazzling immersive theater performance<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Head to a controversial exhibit and discuss for hours over wine<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- (Partner) dance the night away at a club<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Meet for coffee; they love to chat, especially with a good caffeine buzz<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Go skydiving or try a flying trapeze<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Head to a comedy club or funny movie<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A road trip to a state fair or amusement park will have them bouncing in their seat<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Take a hands-on workshop or a lesson, like motorcycle riding or snowboarding<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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